How soon?(3 Posts)
greenbubbles Sun 24-Sep-17 07:45:23
MrsBertBibby Sun 24-Sep-17 10:32:02
Winteriscomingneedmorewood Sun 24-Sep-17 10:34:08
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Are there any benefits for divorcing sooner or waiting a bit?
My STBXH left a couple of months ago. We tried couples counselling but it didn't work out. Lots of lies came to the surface and it turns out he's been spending a lot of time on escort sites. I can't trust him anymore. I'm pregnant and feel like I'd like to get everything sorted before the baby arrives. We need a bigger house and I'm not sure if I will have the money to fund one.
I think he's a bit in denial and expects that I will have him back eventually.
Am I moving too quickly since he only left a few months ago? Are there pros/cons to waiting or waiting till after the baby arrives?
I generally advise against delay. I suggest you go see a solicitor now, talk the whole thing through, and then you can decide . It's unlikely you will get everything sorted before the birth though unless your finances are very simple.
Wrap it up ASAP.
Then when the baby arrives you can focus on being a dm and not the ex. .
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