Okay so the title of this thread is a bit of a rhetorical question as I know it's different for everyone.
But I'm looking for some glimmers of hope that one day I'll stop feeling so so sad about my divorce.
The details are too long to go into here, but suffice to say I find it difficult to not keep looking backwards and wishing I'd/we'd tried harder to keep the marriage together. No one wants divorce I don't think. I seem to be in this deep sadness that I can't shake off. I miss 'family' time and togetherness. I don't greatly enjoy being a single mother. I've been finding it hard to adjust and I look at other families and just feel sad.
My ex-DH had an affair for 9 months which I only found out when the OW decided to contact me out of the blue on Facebook to talk. (Very kind of her - not!). The marriage was broken before that and I fully acknowledge my part - probably too much.
I feel I was numb for a couple of years and didn't feel much about the divorce until fairly recently when like a ton of bricks the pain of it all has hit me. Now I feel I'm just in a well of grief that seems never ending.
I know I don't help myself by being and feeling fairly isolated but it's hard to push myself out of my shell when I feel this way.
Surely this has to change at some point. At the moment I feel so empty and alone.
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How long does the grief last?
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Deadsouls · 22/09/2017 23:06
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