I am really struggling to know if I am doing the right thing for my kids. I have been separated for two years and on the whole co parent very successfully. They are with their Dad 3 nights a week. I believe in routine and want to stick to it. My problem is that their Dad doesn't think the same and tells the kids that he thinks they should just be able to choose if they want to go to his on a night that they're with me. I end up being the Baddy that says no and one if my children is really struggling. The others are fine and go with the flow. All my instincts say I right to keep to routine but I just need some advice.
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