So I've realised that divorce is the only option - original post here:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/3006654-Deep-down-I-know-its-right-but-its-so-hard
I've also just snooped on husbands computer and there was a sample divorce form and he's been researching new bank accounts so I feel I need to get my act together and get prepared but have no idea where to start! Bear in mind he's still not talking to me so we have yet to have a conversation where we agree that we are even separating!
He's off to work at the Dublin office tomorrow so I have a few days to get my act together.
I have a few quesitons, does being the one filing for divorce have any advantages?
What constitutes unreasonable behaviour? He's an alcoholic - that seems pretty unreasonable to me?! But hard to prove?
How do we work out finances in the interim?
I'm sure I'll have many more when I go down the rabbit hole!!
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where to start? what do I need to do to prepare myself for what's to come
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wilky23 · 15/08/2017 20:57
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