Im so confused...
Ive been married 8 weeks this saturday and ive just told my husband im not sure i love him anymore.
To cut it short, ive been dishonest and disloyal. I had a short affair with another married man which is now over, but its made me realise that im not happy in my sexless marriage.
My husband loves me. He loves me more than i love him. Its me that doesnt want sex. He has sensed something hasnt been right as we have barely talked for over a week. He kept pressing me tonight until i told him.
I told him i loved him, like my best friend, and it was breaking my heart to tell him as he is a really good man and a fantastic father to our 2 year old son. My husband is 20 yrs my senior which is now playing on my mind..... after 9 years together!!
He was upset, asked if it was over, i said no, but we wasnt good (im not so sure, part of me thinks it is over) i told him im lonely as he works nights and we dont ever do anything as a couple anymore.
He seems ok now, trying to plan days out as a family which is nice... i really want to tell him not to try so hard, and not to get his hopes up but i dont want to hurt him.
I feel pressured to try and make it work because of my son and for what i have done.
Im scared to be a single mum on my own and the outcome of not only my son, but for my husband if we split, but im scared of feeling like this and carrying on the same in this relationship......
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Here you'll find divorce help and support from other Mners. For legal advice, you may find Advice Now guides useful.
Divorce/separation
I just told my husband im not sure i want him anymore
10 replies
BabyG2015 · 24/07/2017 20:01
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.