To say that I'm pissed off is an understatement.
Because of the emotional abuse that my ex has been inflicting on my 4 year old, I removed the children from the care of my ex (I had been forced into a 50/50 arrangement) in order to protect them. For the last 6 or 7 weeks I've been living with my parents.
My ex has gone to court to get a child arrangement order. Because my solicitor has become incredibly expensive, I'm in the process of getting Legal Aid. My ex's solicitor knows this.
So that's the backstory... he's what he's done.
Firstly, he sent an email to my solicitor at 6pm (after close of business) on a FRIDAY asking me to reinstate contact between my kids and their dad at 8am the next day, and made specific reference to the fact it was Fathers Day on Sunday. My solicitor didn't pick the email up until Monday, so I certainly didn't see it. I don't know if they're going to use it against me, but still.
But even more worrying, is that I haven't had the court papers yet. They should have been sent to me by now but they weren't because the Court didn't have an address for me. My ex knows where I am but clearly didn't provide the address. Plus he has email addresses and phone numbers for me. Even so, I gave my ex's solicitor my address last Friday, and still no papers have arrived - and the hearing is on August 7th!!!!
It was pretty horrible finding out the court date when CAFCASS called to do their safeguarding check. She was very surprised that I hadn't had my papers yet and suggested I ring the court. So I did - and found out that my ex's solicitor is trying to bring the date forward!!!
So my fear is that they are trying to prevent me from having my legal aid representation or prevent me from preparing all my documents. Or, at the very worst, they are trying to stop me from turning up at all!
What do you guys make of this?! Any solicitors out there who can tell me if this is normal or unprofessional? Or anyone else with more experience in this kind of thing? Maybe I'm just innocent and naive but I would have thought the guy would conduct himself in a professional manner and this seems anything but!
Thank you x
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Is my ex's solicitor being unprofessional?
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RoseNarene · 14/07/2017 16:42
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