Separating, amicable but miserable and stressful environment at home (which makes him want to speed up the break... "To rip off the band aid". But not had enough clarity on financial arrangement or child sharing etc so am constantly trying to put the brakes on a little. Going to relate for separation counselling to sort these details.
I am terrified of not being able to kiss my kids goodnight every night or them not being able to sneak into my bed. Having to divide up their toys and having 'that' conversation. I'm scared about the bomb I'm about to set off in what they probably see as a fairly happy home.
My husband and I have no trust for each other and no sexual intimacy and we know as partners it's over. It's the hidden stuff the kids might not have clicked and I just am scared and in pain for what I'm going to have to do.
Please can someone tell me it gets better? That the conversation and transition might go better than I thought? Tips to help with kids coming to terms are welcome too. They are 7 and 10.
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Hand hold please... Building up to "that conversation" with kids
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Talith · 01/07/2017 16:20
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