Simply that. \r\n\r\nAm I being unreasonable that STBXH continues to be non-contact since December despite my offering several olive branches. \r\n\r\nNo other person involved from what I hear through our grapevine. \r\n\r\nOur behaviour reflects our marriage - zero communication and emotional avoidance. \r\n\r\nI wonder how long it's possible to keep this up after 25 years together. \r\n\r\nWe have 2DDs 18 and 16 who now spend all their time with me and it is their choice. I have not coerced them to the extent I spent Christmas alone. He is being equally avoidant of them. \r\n\r\nI wonder who's had a similar experience. \r\n\r\nI care about STBXH but it's clear I need to accept the relationship has no saving features.