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Has anybody used 'Intelligent Divorce'?

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JohPa · 23/06/2017 06:28

Hi all,
Just wondering if anyone has any feedback on this - good or bad. I'm trying to find a cost-effective solution as finances are limited but there are children involved and I know that we're going to need advice sorting out finances out plus I want to ensure that we both get a fair deal. I'm also concerned as although things aren't actually acrimonious, my husband is an Olympic champion at burying his head in the sand, still seems to think that the whole thing is going to blow over and is likely to be extremely passive. He has already pulled out of a mediation meeting at the 11th hour.
Any advice or feedback gratefully received !

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JohPa · 25/06/2017 21:43

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JohPa · 27/06/2017 06:33

Thanks for your comments.
I think my problem is likely to be apathy from my husband - whenever I try and discuss issues such as potential child care arrangements with him his standard answer is that he hasn't thought about it. If nothing else wondered if I might be able to use their proformas to help me gather all the information I would need to present to the solicitor as a way of keeping costs down.
Our only real assets are our home and my pension, I don't think he will challenge my wish to be the main carer for our children at all. In some ways it would actually be easier if he had an opinion - at least we would each have a starting point to negotiate from. That was my concern with going to mediation - that he would turn up having done no preparation resulting in it being a complete waste of time and money.

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Arabella9 · 13/05/2020 13:10

Hi - they have ceased trading and no longer accepting new clients. This company do a similar barrister review service. Good reviews too.

www.mediateuk.co.uk/barrister-review/

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