I split with my hubby a year ago and am exhausted with the constant messages about how everything is my fault, my family are awful. ....etc. if I don't reply to a question within a few minutes I'm then being emotionally abusive and making myself feel powerful. Sigh sigh sigh.........I just want to get in with my life in reality. We have kids so make arrangements every week for him to see them. A family member takes the kids to meet him as he was being abusive in front of kids if I went. I've asked him to stop emailing me and only text as we only need to make arrangements for kids. social services recommend supervised access only and I don't want him to have kids on his own either. We haven't been through court with this so it's not a legal recommendation. Each week we have the same battle. He wants them at his house and I say it needs to be X or Y venue out in public.
I was trying to explore some more distant means if making these arrangements so I don't end up with reams of crazy messages. I was thinking of maybe saying no more contact only via a shared calendar where I can input where to meet each week and he could make his own suggestions etc. Has anyone else been in this type of situation?
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Making child contact arrangements with abusive ex
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howdiditgettothis · 19/06/2017 23:31
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