Hi I would like some advice, my ex husband walked out For his affair partner when my boy was 4.5 months old he hasn't seen him very often and has long periods the latest being 5 months since he's seen him. I don't believe my son knows him as his dad because of the lack of contact and his age.
I have moved to London 4 months ago as he's stopped paying support so I needed to earn more money to provide for my son. He also has had another child with his new partner which has meant for him his focus has been elsewhere. however my toddler is asking why he doesn't have a daddy and where he is. His dad has actually arranged to see him next week but hasn't committed to how often he will see him as he says the fact we have moved 4.5 hours away means he doesn't know how often he can come. So I'm not sure how best to explain things to my son. He was even crying tonight as he doesn't understand why his dad is not around for him to collect him like the other children's dads are, so it really needs to be tackled now in the right way and it's the right time with the pending visit.
Advice welcome!
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How do I explain to my 2yr old where his dad is?
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Purplemunchkin76 · 15/06/2017 20:23
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