Not admitting but not contesting...

I'm not sure he can change his forms now he's sent them back to the court. I shall see how difficult amending the petition looks as he can't really deny any of the unreasonable behaviours on my list and that might be easier than having to appear before the Judge.

Unfortunately not. I had put it to him that we could divorce fairly smoothly if he admitted his affair without having to dredge up the unreasonable behaviours and he said he would. I think he thinks he will be penalised if he's the guilty party although I did tell him it doesn't work like that any more. I rang the court this morning and they have said it would count as a contested divorce and would have to go to court, or I can amend the grounds. It's the time wasted I'm most cross about; I just want to get on with it!

Thanks for replying- I thought that would be the case. I was hoping to keep it simple as he had said he'd admit it, but as I've no photos of them at it I shall have to resort to the long list of UBs!