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Decree nisi please help!!(3 Posts)
Was wondering if anyone can help or give me some reassurance
I applied for decree nisi nearly 5 weeks ago. It's been with the judge for 4 weeks.
I'm really scared I got told by email that a letter is sent out to me and gave no further information
I petitioned under unreasonable behaviour my petition I stated he tried to force himself on me and it triggered my childhood sexual abuse, when he found this out he kept using it against me and would keep trying to pressure me into sexual activity. I couldn't due to the past. I'm a Muslim so never ever been involved with a guy physically in my life apart from my abuse so I didn't know it affected me.
I also stated that he wouldn't let me out my house without him, when I went out with my aunt and cousin he threatened to kill himself because I went ot without him
Despite knowing my past abuse he would play with me and force himself on me when he thought I'd be asleep and then pretend it was an evil spirit.
He caused issues between me and my parents
He wouldn't let me spend time with my siblings even though we lived with him (wasn't allowed to watch t with them in the evening etc)
Husband agreed to it all but now I'm so scared because I mentioned the bit of me not being sexually available
Also put how he stole my letter from my psychiatrist to my doctor related to my sexual abuse and read t out to men within the Asian community to bring shame onto my family
He also tried to bribe my dad to pay him so he'll divorce me.
I'm on the verge of a nervous breakdown and I don't know what to do.
Anyone's opinion will help... please!! 😭
Decree nisi usually take some months to come through. Have you got a solicitor?
No, it's just me
My decree nisi application has been rejected! Not sure why am waiting on the letter to come through 😔
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