I’m in the middle of a divorce and have just been issued with the Decree Nisi. We split almost 3 years ago and although it was exh choice we get on well for the most part. We have 1 DS who’s 5.
So its now time for my exh and I to sort out what we’re going to do with the house we jointly own and how to split it. We purchased the house in 2008 with him putting in a £15,000 deposit. From the start, we always paid half of the mortgage each and have continued to do so since splitting in July 2014. Also since splitting I have spent approximately £10,000 on updating the property and repairs. He does not want any claim on his original £15k or any claim on my pension. (He does not have one).
The outcome we’re looking to achieve is for me to stay in the house with DS. I’m not able to buy exh out so we know that we will need to draw up a consent order (I think that’s what its known as). We both agree that he would continue paying half the mortgage and that I would cover the cost of any repairs and updating. To reflect this, the split when sold would be 60% to me, 40% to him. He suggested a 55% to me, 45% to him. My ultimate question is – what seems fair? His suggestion or mine? I we both just want to get it right without being unfair to the other.
We tried mediation and both found it to be a complete waste of time and money because the mediator spent so much time talking about unnecessary things we didn’t get to discuss any of the above. So before I go back to my solicitor to advise that I’m ready for a consent order to be drawn up, any opinions on what it should look like would be greatly received!! Thanks everyone
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Is this a fair split?
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Straightinmybasket · 15/05/2017 19:25
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