My friend is newly married (7months) and has just had a baby (5 week old).
She lives in London in a small flat as they are waiting for his transfer to the south west to come through (he's in civil service). It's a bedsit. They are both from extreme south west and their parents live there so not much support in London.
The birth was was traumatic for her (emergency c section) and she's struggled for the past weeks (mentally).
He's had some sort of meltdown and went back to his parents. He's not been hospitalised and is mentioning perhaps PTSD but no diagnosis.
My friend is so low, the baby is crying, she is crying and he's not saying when he will come back.
What do I advise her? Her parents are taking her home next week to stay with them for however long she needs.
I'm just so shocked he would leave her and the baby and a new marriage. He's not saying whether he will come back or not.
I have not said to her what I think she should do I have just given her practical help (giving her breaks, washing clothes etc) but I will have to go back to work on Monday. What do I do?
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needalittleL · 05/05/2017 14:41
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