The title says it all. Historically bad behaviour from him, porn addiction, camming, online affairs. I've tried to save it, and then later have been trying to end it, lack of confidence and insecurity stopped me. 10yr Marriage is now dead in the water, no sex for 3 years, separate rooms, no trust, just a waste of fucking time.
But he won't have it. I know he's not happy but does not want to live apart from his kids and is refusing to accept that it's over. I ended it last week but I'm just not getting through to him that it's not working. We are hurting the kids with this model of relationships.
Anyone been through this? Is it a phase that we/he will work through? At the moment he is swinging between being a vortex of doom, a nasty bastard and father of the year. I'm so fucking tired and I just want to move on.
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Dh won't accept it's over
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thistoosha11pass · 16/04/2017 22:32
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