Not for me, but my brother!
Brother and wife were married for 4 years, and separated last Easter. They had initially agreed to wait 2 years and do an uncontested divorce, but she has now served him with divorce papers and wants the following: All her legal fees paid, a lump payment, spousal support and a proportion of his pension.
For background, they married young and spent the first two years both working minimum wage jobs. The 3rd year he did a course to upskill, and for the last 7 months of their marriage he was in a job earning approx £28K (London weighting). During the time he was retraining, my parents loaned them £6K to pay for rent, which has not yet been repaid. They have no savings, and live in their overdraft. The only assets are the 2 cars, of which she has the much better one, and their wedding gifts, which he told her to keep all of. He continued paying their rent single handedly when she moved back with their parents, and she gave up a job she hated because she didn't want to stay in London, but is now working again. There is no pension, and he is on a temporary contract which ends in May and won't be extended (covering mat leave).
To me it seems crazy that she can ask for assets that don't exist and walk away from their joint debt, especially as there is no kids, and over the 4 years their earnings are comparable (although he will now out earn her unless she gets more qualifications).
Can anyone advise on what she may be entitled to, and any hints on how to deal with this without bankrupting them both and making lawyers that bit richer?
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Divorce/separation
No assets- ex wants settlement
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Craicvac · 01/02/2017 20:35
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