Hi,
I have been with my husband for 8 years, we have two children of 6 and 2. Our relationship has deteriorated to the point where I want to leave him, he's hurt me (emotionally) too much and I can't take it anymore. I don't know where to start or what to do.
We don't have a relationship where everything comes out of our combined account and where everything is shared. He pays the rent and council tax. I pay/paid for everything else. Currently I work full time 5 days a week but have gotten myself into debt because of the amount I have to pay out. One of the sticking points of our relationship is that he is extremely tight and never helped out. I have always had one existing credit card and one loan. However recently I have had to increase my borrowing. I have now taken on an overdraft. All of my salary goes in and out again, however I am now trapped in my overdraft.
I want to be able to leave my husband and take my children with me or him leave and have no uprooting for my two. Trouble is where do I start? I just have no clue. I have told him our relationship is over. He is still living in the house except he sleeps in the living room.
Any advice would be really appreciated x
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Lou141 · 10/08/2016 13:55
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