I have been with my husband for 14 years and we have 2 children. Over the years he has taken his stress out on me by shouting and having tantrums. There have also been lots of good times.
Over the past 4 years I have been doing a degree which has added to his stress and financial strain. This resulted in frequent outbursts and being shouted at for being selfish. Each time he does this he would apologize the next day and say he didn't mean it but it has ground me down. I told him that one day I would have enough and that day has come.
He wants a final chance to change but I have heard this many times before. I have emotionally checked out, I feel it's damaging to me and the kids to stay with him. However, I appreciate that he does love me and is a good father.
Do I give him another chance? Do I split up our family as it feels like a toxic environment? Can I do this to him?! Am I an awful person to say I've had enough and I can't Gove him another final chance?!
Thanks in advance,
Zebra x
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Zebrajam · 27/07/2016 06:11
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