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Feeling down - Friend ignoring me since separated from husband

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Estimated201 · 08/06/2016 14:01

Have been separated since last August. Best friend at the time (was my bridesmaid 3 years previously, and I was hers last year), has completely blanked me since. Last I saw of her was her wedding.

I have sent messages, but nothing back.

Should I forget about her now?

I assume that because her husband is friends with my ex that my ex has been saying things about me.

I am guessing if she was a good friend that she wouldn’t listen to negative things or at least contact me to tell me.

Should I still bother?

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needresolution · 10/06/2016 11:38

Hi it difficult isn't it?
My ex and I had some close friends since school, one of the wives is quite neutral so still speaks to me but other than that I haven't heard from hardly any of them. His sister and H have cut me off too.
Try not to think about it and if you decide to move on you will gain other friends.

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Minime85 · 12/06/2016 08:07

It's sad but no I'd let her go and move on to new beginnings and new friends

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