My ex is literally destroying me mentally!
He controls everything to do with my son and he gets away with everything
From access to maintenance to mental abuse to not even paying tax he's just a massive Arse!
I don't have the money for court or mediation and he knows this so just continues to do it.
I could stop access but who is it affecting the most?
Just spoke to my son on the phone after I was allowed a phone call and my son sounded like a younger version of his dad laughing down the phone at me with his dad that isn't even my son!
How do I get control back over my life and get my ex to behave like a normal human being?
See his son when he's meant to stop mentally and emotionally abusing me (I'm in tears right now because I agreed to let my son stay an extra day and I fucking regret it!! As he would normally be at home by now I don't even know where he lives!
He controls literally everything! He chucks his clothes away that I buy, he only gives me money if he feels like it and just changes the amounts when he wants to. If I whinge he says go to the CSA ( I did this before and they told me that he only earned £5 per week) he taunts me constantly. He has people spying on me and sends me messages like little riddles to abuse me more.
The police are absolutely useless. It's like he's swallowed a law book to how to abuse your ex completely legally. He's managed to beat me up in the past and get away with it. He's also a drug dealer and no one gives a shit. Apparently I can't get him to stop contacting me as we have a child together and he needs to speak to me to access the child.
What the hell do I do?
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why will my ex not grow up!
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nonladyofleisure · 05/06/2016 13:28
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