I just went downstairs to change the baby's nappy (so I wouldn't disturb our 4 year old).
Husband is there, drunk after a night at the pub plus more alcohol at home, stating that he was about to come to bed.
I remarked that he hadn't turned off the Sky TV and tried to do it for him. He then turned on the actual TV set, so I laughed and told him that it was the wrong bit.
Well - he went mad. Called me a fucking cunt and stormed off outside.
I knew that if I argued too much with him that he'd upset the baby and wake our son, so went back to bed.
He's just come up now (I pretended to be asleep so I'd avoid a massive drunken argument'.
He just shook me to wake me up and tell me that he's leaving me tomorrow; that I'm just like my Dad (who is a controlling, nasty person at times) and that he's 'not being treated badly anymore).
I didn't do anything wrong - I feel he's trying to justify his actions of what he's about to do in his head.
I told him that I won't be spoken to in the way he just did and I won't have that behaviour around the children.
I also told him that I won't beg him to stay as I won't be treated in the way he just behaved.
Since our daughter was born, 4 months ago, he's been awful. Really horrible - pretty much from the second she came home. I'm suffering with very bad SPD but he's still making me do all the school runs and take our boy swimming, whilst he works from home and lies in bed until at least 10 every morning.
Where the hell do I go from here?
This is going to break my little boy's heart.
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husband has just woken me up to tell me he's leaving
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ilyacailly · 29/04/2016 03:11
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