Can I get through this & move on?...

[Sweetiepie20]

Sorry about TAAT sort of different angle
My STBXH of 15 years wants a divorce - I did not and pleaded with him to reconsider. Have just got my head round it kind of. My kids have left home. We have no children together but a traumatic MC several years ago. He now says he wants to move on find a younger woman and have a child. Says he still has feelings for me but has to be loyal to himself. WTH? AFAIK there is nobody else. He is being cruel, cold and detached. Living in same house SR. Not speaking. He bought us a small business for us both but now won't let me near it. Scary. Advice pls.

[Minime85]

Sorry not sure I have advice other than it sounds like his decision is made and if question whether you'd want him after him saying such things.

[Sweetiepie20]

Thank you, you were spot on. His decision is made and he moved out yesterday whilst I was out. All his preparations were done in secret. Painful and I feel distraught but now the process has started...I guess I better consult a solicitor.