After 2 joint mediation sessions I now have a full financial disclosure document. I am seeing my solicitor next week to start discussing the settlement but I have absolutely no clue how this is going to work. Can anyone tell me what I can expect from this appointment with my solicitor and what he will need?
I've looked a the divorce calculator on wikivorce but how on earth am I meant to know what my outgoings will be or what my exh outgoings will be? Is it literally a shot in the dark? I obviously have all the calculations for now which is for the 4 of us (2dcs) but how do I work it out?
Honestly, I may sound stupid but I'm utterly clueless on this and people keep saying the importance of getting all your figures right but I'm petrified. Financial abuse/control is one of the reasons for our divorce so I'm so anxious about getting it right but really don't know where to start. Will the solicitor expect me to go in with a figure of what I need to live on?
Sorry if all this makes no sense but I'm in a bit of a panic after burying my head in the sand a bit.
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Winniethewylde · 01/04/2016 10:19
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