I am fairly recently officially separated from h, though we have been living in the same house but separated for 2.5 years.
The split is largely amicable and we still sometimes hang out as four some (h, me and the two DD's) and because we share mutual friends can socialise as part of a group occasionally without the kids, ( as we don't want to make our friends feel awkward and have to choose and we don't hate each other).
H is now starting to date someone -probably a woman from work-though he doesn't want to totally tell me that yet.He has dropped hints however.
My question is how do I go about being a good ex wife when the time comes for h to tell me he is seeing someone else? (I feel this will be soon-he isn't good at being on his own and he has most likely been seeing this woman for some time before he moved of of home) I don't want him to feel awkward as I am pleased for him, but I would like to get to know whoever he is introducing to my DD's a bit- not as in be their best friend or anything-just don't want her, any of of our mutual friends or the kids to feel awkward and think the best way of doing this is to establish a vaguely friendly relationship at least.Is this unrealistic? Do new girlfriends want to be on good terms with the the ex wife or would it be seen as too much/and or weird? And if not how would I go about it?
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ConkersDontScareSpiders · 10/03/2016 18:34
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