Almost there with moving house and divorcing...I hope. We had initially agreed that the kids would live half the week with me and half with him and then have them alternate weekends...stbxh is not talking to me as I had to call the police last week and since then he has been advised not to speak to me (suits me most of the time as he is an horrendous EA) The DC's are 13.5 and 16.5 (boy and girl) I just wondered on a practical basis what worked for others and more importantly for their kids. The kids are at school and the other at college. I plan to live near a train station so both can be independent regarding getting to and from if necessary. The reason I now ask is because he mentioned to DS last night that he's changed his plans...and that he wants the kids to live with us one week on and one week off (but hasn't discussed this with me) partly it's about control and he's getting advice from his numerous 'women' who are divorcees and partly from friends and family all of whom think he is a major victim in all of this - especially since the police incident (so now I'm tagged as vindictive and paranoid - sigh) Would love to hear how you split the custody and no, the kids are happy to split their time at the moment and I don't want to pursue full custody.
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Divorcing - advice on best way to split 50/50 custody - weekly or daily with alternate weekends?
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positivo · 09/02/2016 10:08
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