I feel like a total failure! - that's it really.
I've posted on another part of the site previously not realising this section actually existed.
I've fought so hard to prevent this for a year now and have been met with lies upon lies upon lies. I was doing well for a while, but just crumbling completely now.
I'm in no way perfect here, we had our problems, but in my mind nothing that couldn't be fixed with some hard work. I feel I have so many unanswered questions though.........
He would have completed and sent a statement of support for the petition - which he would have clearly lied on ......i.e. we still live under the same room, still share a bed, still do everything together and are still intimate (yes I'm a mug I appreciate that). Do I flag he's lied on a formal document?
We're also still battling over a financial settlement........his parents gifted a sum when we bought our home which they now want back........never a loan always a gift, so apparently not a leg to stand on but still another layer of stress and more solicitors to deal with as they've appointed their own.
The house is the only asset, there's a sale agreed, house in DH name only, but I have got a home rights notice in place, which gives me a little comfort. I'm battling though as I cannot let the sale go ahead without the financials being sorted. I know there's an option for the solicitor to hold the equity on account pending settlement, but where do I live with 2 dcs in the meantime? - I'm told I can stop that and worst case scenario can apply to court for an order to stop the sale.
What I've asked for in settlement is not unreasonable by any means and is simply sufficient to provide a roof over the dcs heads.
I feel as though I have the weight of the world on my shoulders and a man that regularly tells me he loves me and tries to comfort me, then the following day "BAM" hits me with something else! Will it ever end?
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Received notice from the court today that decree nisi date is set and...........
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tornandhurt · 02/02/2016 15:53
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