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Stbxh wants a copy of my mortgage offer

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Dungandbother Thu 21-Jan-16 18:39:15

We are almost there after 2 1/2 years.
He's quibbling over the funds from
Him to me being 28 days not 21 days. Yeah whatever.

And he wants to see my mortgage offer. Why is it any of his business?
It isn't. It's my mortgage and we are having a clean break divorce.

I can tell him to F off can't I?

HumptyDumptyHadaHardTime Thu 21-Jan-16 18:40:49

Have you done form E etc?

Dungandbother Thu 21-Jan-16 21:06:36

Actually no, not full disclosure. Just the basic one of stated assets.

Basically, from an similarly point of view, we agreed no pension sharing, no previous property sharing and no business sharing.

So yes that sounds bad but I've come out on top and about 70% of assets.

In that we're not arguing. But he's nitpicking over stupid tiny details.

My mum might have bought out my house. Surely he is being removed from liability therefore none of his beeswax.

Dungandbother Thu 21-Jan-16 21:06:45

Thanks by the way

OurBlanche Fri 22-Jan-16 09:06:14

He might just be checking that he really has been bought out of any responsibility. His solicitor may have suggested he checks that there are sufficient funds in place and that his name is off any paperwork.

I am sure MNers would suggest something similar if he was buying you out.

I am sure YANBU to be sceptical, just maybe this is one where your spidey senses are doing overtime.

HumptyDumptyHadaHardTime Fri 22-Jan-16 11:55:21

Without full disclosure how do you know you are getting 70% of assets?

He or you, for that matter could be hiding all sorts.

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