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ConfusedNoMore Sat 12-Dec-15 09:52:33

Not a big issue compared to actual divorce proceedings going on (in court soon) but it is something I wonder about. What did you do with your wedding and engagement rings?

I love mine. Can't wear them but not sure I could part with them either. Toying with having made into one new ring after divorce or is that a bit weird?

Was reading engagement ring thread on style and beauty so its prompted this.

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TooSassy Sat 12-Dec-15 14:05:25

You could melt down and have new jewellery made.

I plan on selling mine. No way I want to keep them.

ConfusedNoMore Sat 12-Dec-15 22:07:54

You might be right. Maybe I should sell them and get myself something new.

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marriednotdead Sun 13-Dec-15 01:03:17

I'm in a similar position and love my rings. Twat ex actually had the cheek to ask for mine back <whole other thread>hmm
Made me determined to keep them on until I'm good and ready to take them off, divorce should be finalised in the spring.
Developed an itchy rash a couple of weeks ago looks like every part of me is rejecting him so have swapped them to my right hand for now.

When I can afford it, I intend to have them made into a ring or perhaps a chain.

marriednotdead Sun 13-Dec-15 01:05:09

The resale value of jewellery tends to be a fraction of what you paid so it may not get you much more than scrap prices.

Gobzilla Fri 15-Jan-16 21:13:35

I love my rings and they are not very traditional so i decides to wear them on my right ring finger.

ALaughAMinute Fri 15-Jan-16 22:34:25

I was going to pass mine on to my daughter but I'm not sure she'll want them seeing as we got divorced.

HerRoyalNotness Fri 15-Jan-16 22:42:29

My first ex I threw them in the bin, if it happens again I'll keep them and most likely wear them. They're lovely and I will always treasure them, if not the man who gave them to me

Mumtumwhatever Sat 06-Feb-16 08:42:30

Resale value is a joke so I kept mine. I have two daughters so I am keeping the rings for them because they liked them (I have two eternity bands - how ironic that I am now divorced!).

They will have to fight over a pair of diamond earrings and my engagement ring though! My engagement ring however I'm toying with getting made into a solitaire necklace, because I always wanted one!

My ex also tried to get me to return everything during our financial settlement. Instead I got a valuation for the resale value (1/5 of the purchase price). That made him really angry but it did shut him up and I kept my rings.

Fairylea Sat 06-Feb-16 08:46:38

I sold mine and used the money towards a break to Disneyland Paris for dd and I. The memories and great photos meant more to me or her than the rings did.

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