We both own it jointly, and in an ideal world I would love to buy him out but cannot afford it.
He comes and goes as he pleases but nothing I can do as his name is on the mortgage (I checked this with a solicitor)
He is getting worse as he is loosing control, so any moment I spend in his presence is emotional torture (we have a small ds together).
I also pay ALL the mortgage - he just pays child maintenance and occasionally helps out with other costs (seems to enjoy making me squirm for it though)
I have been considering the option of selling then renting but I know that will be a huge upheaval and I will feel bad about loosing my home.
Just don;t know what to do I can;t take ex oh anymore he is trying anything he can to get control back so I wonder if the best thing to do is count my losses and make a clean break.
or does anyone know if there are any other options for me at all?
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Ex abusive oh moved out - but what to do with the house?
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outofpaper · 18/11/2015 22:07
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