I'd really appreciate if anyone can recommend someone good they've used or are using.
I'm just beginning to start this process but need someone good as I know H is going to be a complete bugger. When we've discussed splitting up before (oh so many times during the nearly 13 years of our marriage) he always says how he will destroy me financially, he will definitely keep our home, take the children from me, stand up in court and say what an unfit mother I am etc etc.
Don't know if this is important or not, but main assets are about £180K equity in family home and he has a large pension fund, £535K with a previous employer. I have a couple of small pensions myself but only around £50K. Things may well be complicated by numerous debts he has created through a failed business. Most are linked to his limited company only although it has recently come to light that he has put his half of the house equity as charge against one of his debts. Who knew he could do this without my consent?
The point of the detail is to explain that this could be complicated...
Any help anyone can offer would be greatly appreciated as I'm currently terrified but I know that enough is enough and I need to do this now.