We want to divorce by consent, he is prepared to take a cash sum in financial settlement. I have always been the breadwinner and main carer for our children. He has always worked when he chooses on the principal that whats mine is ours and whats is is his. He has not contributed in any regular or signifiant menner ( yes I know I am an idiot but at least I realised it at last!!). In the last two years he sold a buiness and property abroad for about £50k and frittered away the cash with his mates.
Our assets are equity in the house, my pension and his much smaller pension abroad.
We have two children 15 and 17 who live with me.
I am the one who stands to loose financially and at 52 I have little chance of making good my pension/getting a new mortgage etc so I want to leap on the cash settlement if we can agree on the amount. I dont think he is aware of his entitlement regarding the pension and I am not about to tell him.
He is expecting me to sort out the divorce - which I am happy to do if it comes on my terms.
Neither of us have cash for a solicitor
The question is does the court insist at any time on approving the financial settlement? If they do I run the risk of someone making him aware of his rights - in which case I may as well wait for the five years and he can divorce me.
Any advice or experiences welcome!
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Leybournelass · 18/06/2015 14:51
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