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probablyparanoid Mon 19-Jan-15 00:06:47

How do you do birthdays after divorce. ? I am in second year of divorce. Last year we had a family dinner for each child in a restaurant. This year my relationship with ex has deteriorated and I am not sure is great idea for us to share a meal as I think kids will pick up on the tension. How do others do it? Birthday for both kids fall on days when ex happens to have them.

wheresthelight Mon 19-Jan-15 12:18:48

alternate years would be common although dp's ex refuses and insists all special occasions are with her.

however you feel he is their dad and has the right to spend those special occasions with them too.

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