Hi there
I was wondering if anyone can help me. I don't live in the UK and my husband fled there last year, leaving behind 4 kids.
He initiated a financial settlement against me with the following timetable.
- financial disclosure Form E
I completed and had added to this since end July 2014 in full
He gave partial disclosure and still 14 items missing and not added to it at all since July 2014 and his solicitor has admitted she has some of the missing items but will not hand them over
- questionnaire mid August 2014
I completed mine 2 weeks early.
He completed his 2 days late.
- reply to questionnaire mid September 2014
I replied 2 weeks early, beginning September 2014
He has refused to comply and not replied, his solicitor lied to judge claiming I had submitted 3 questionnaires which was completely untrue, claiming the day before deadline she'd missed 2 of them, absolute lie, I numbered them 1.1, 1.2, 1.3, 2.1, 2.2, 2.3,3.1, 3.2, 3.3 etc a section questioning his Form E, a section questioning his bank transactions and a section questioning his credit cards/
The solicitor admitted she had not looked at the following pages and blamed it on me for "submitting 3 questionnaires" which was complete rubbish and does not excuse the fact that still I have no reply to the questionnaire that I renumbered 1 to 80!!!!!!
So still we are end October, the judge allowed an extension to reply to my questionnaire end September, the solicitor has still not replied. Based on the extension date, the reply to questionnaire is now 4 weeks late.
- narrative statement 3rd week September 2014
I completed mine 2 days early.
He refused to comply. He is now 5 weeks late
So I have only a partial financial disclosure, no reply to questionnaire, no narrative. He has everything from my side. I have reported this to the judge. He never replies. I have asked for an adjournment of final hearing as my husband and solicitor have to complied with the court order for the submission of the essential documents. I have had no reply and it is extremely frustrating.
I suffer constant harassment by text that until now neither the UK Police nor the other EU Police has dealt with. I get horrendous text messages, several 100 over 15 months. Finally I hope the Police are reacting, certainly the EU Police are doing so.
In addition, my husband is refusing to comply with the child maintenance order in place in the EU country where we live, 3 times he has lost appeals and he's now on 4th appeal, but that is another story.
I am having to self represent, having failed to secure the help of any pro-bono lawyers anywhere in the UK and having no access to loans currently and little liquid cash. It is extremely hard for me and I feel the other solicitors and the court and treating me very unfairly, I rarely get any communication.
So can anyone advise me now? No good saying "seek legal advice" as I have no money to pay, I have been turned down for legal aid 2 times because I own a house. I have been turned down for a bank loan. I have no-one who can loan me enough money to pay a solicitor. I have watched my husband spend £33k of our family money, at least his partial disclosure proved that, but it left me with no liquid money.
Even worse, my husband has refused me access to the family home in the UK neither of us live in, he and solicitor have all the keys. I am paying the mortgage but I am denied access to my home. It is really cruel. I have yet to tell the court and I expect there to be no reaction?
Has anyone any idea what will happen on final hearing? Remember I have no full disclosure from my husband, no reply to my questionnaire, no narrative and the hearing is 4 weeks away and the court refuse to adjourn!!!!!!
I am beside myself with worry.
Please can someone help me.