I hope I'm not being too forward starting a new thread with my first post, but I just wanted to flag a free service that has really helped me - www.splittingup-putkidsfirst.org.uk/home. It's completely free and confidential and took a lot of the hurt I was feeling out of the situation and allowed both my partner and I to focus on our kids (I know that should be easy to do, but sometimes with break ups it can be difficult).
Has anyone else tried it? What do you think? Or are there any other similar services out there that you use?