Hi there , not quite sure what to say but I'm just looking for a place where people might understand I how feel!
My dad has been diagnosed with dementia, he is only 63 , although I suppose age doesn't make it any sadder or easier.
Does anyone have any advice on how not to let it get to you?
I try and visit once a week but I don't live close by and I don't drive so my husband takes me on the weekend. My dad is still okak, he still knows who I am ect, he will get my name.muddled with my auntie or my niece sometimes but then he sees things that aren't there and gets angry about things.
I'm just so sad about it all, I try not to think about him unless it's the day I'm visiting otherwise I will spend the whole day crying (I do suffer with depression and anxiety and i take medication for it) so I know that probably isn't a normal reaction for most people.
Anyway I try not to think about him too much otherwise my poor toddler wouldn't have much fun with a a sobbing mummy and I'm also 7 months pregnant.
I just feel guilty! I guess there is no way I can help my dad is there? He is just going to get.worse and worse and then die?
He lives alone and has carers 3 times a day and has a large extended family who watch out for him. Obviously it's much harder with lockdown.
Sorry for rambling on , I hope my post makes sense. Just looking for a bit of a hand hold I guess. Thanks
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Dementia and Alzheimer's
Dad with dementia
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MisiSam · 28/01/2021 16:02
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