Nobody to speak to in real life!
Its just everything at the moment: mil is back in the care home ( with C H C) but the care home seem to not totally agree with the hospital findings. They are saying she has dementia and they feel it's too quick for them to diagnose this as she hasn't had a scan or anything.
She had aspiration pneumonia and is refusing food. We didn't want her to have a feeding peg so they haven't put one in.
So lots of stress there as the prognoses seems a bit vague and the care place and hospital don't seem to agree with each other!
My dad is inna different care home ( funding it himself) and he just goes on and on about going home ; his been there over a year and just not settled. He has mixed dementia and Alzheimer's.
I'm so fed up with dealing with old people! Both our parents had us late in life and it feels like we've had years and years of nothing but grief! Mil has had bad mobility for years and is now bed bound. My dad seems to be worse ; it's all so depressing!
I know I sound selfish but some times I just don't know how I carry on ; I can't stop worrying g about them and it seems to just impact my life negatively! My mil isn't an easy person to help or like so that doesn't help matters either really. She is 93.
Sorry to moan. I know it could be a lot worse and I'm not the one caring for them either!
Just feel so stressed!
Thanks for listening!
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Dementia and Alzheimer's
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The80sweregreat · 23/10/2019 17:19
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