My mum has moderately severe Alzheimer's and my Dad cares for her. They live in the centre of Paris (my mum is French).
She went out this morning and hasn't come back. Apparently she was very insistent, and Dad thought she would go out for a few minutes then come back - but she didn't. She could have gone in any direction - she wandered off once before and got quite a long way before someone realised she needed help and called the Police.
Dad called the police an hour after she went off, and they've got a photo. But they haven't found her yet. He's gone to the shops they often go to, and nearby streets, but no luck. He's also called the hospital (they have a central register) and no-one giving her name (maiden or married) has been checked in, and no-one unable to give a name of the right age.
I'm so worried for her. She can't find her way places any more, and even if she realises that she's lost she doesn't have the reasoning to find someone and tell them.
So I guess a couple of questions:
- If you have a parent/loved one who has wandered off like this, how long did it take for them to be found and where were they?
- What is the best thing for me to do? I think I should go over to Paris tomorrow if she hasn't been found (I live in London) and look for her - but how do I do that? Go through the streets one by one ? Are there specific places it would be better to focus on?
I just don't know how best to do this, and I'm aware that as time ticks by she could be getting further away.
She's so vulnerable. I think she must be sleeping on the street somewhere. She didn't have any food or drink with her, and no money to buy anything. I'm so scared for her.