My dad has been caring for my mum for the last 5 years, she has parksinsons with limited mobility. In the last year it has been a real struggle as her mental capacity worsened to mild dementia, incontinence and weight loss. She has taken a rapid turn for the worst since Christmas and my dad has broken down today and said he can't do it anymore. I had a referral for social services set up but have called the urgent safeguarding team and they said it's a carers breakdown and is common.
I know he wants her to go in a Home. I have a one bedroomed flat and work so cannot take care of her. What normally happens at this point and how fast? She is crying and saying she can't believe this is happening. It's all very upsetting and I feel sick to be honest.
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Dementia and Alzheimer's
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blondiebea · 08/01/2018 14:36
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