Wow that title is harsh, but it's true
She has started to decline, and all I'm bothered about is the extra leg work I'll have to put in. Yes I know God will strike me down and I will deserve it.
She was never a mother to me, my dad was my main influence, and not a particularly good one. I think she's always been depressed, and think she may have some brain damage but it doesn't alter the fact I don't think I have any feelings for her. Not sure I ever had. No siblings or relatives that are interested.
I do have a fear actually that when she dies I will be hit with unimaginable guilt and grief.
Anyway, she wants to live with me. Out of the question. She comes round for tea once a week and that's too much, she drops poo out of her trouser legs, is sick into her dinner at the table, coughs with food in her open mouth. We can't bear it.
I will do the right thing by her, and see this through. I'll be the daughter I need to be.
Is there anyone else who just has no interest to the point of just been inconvenienced by it all?
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Dementia & Alzheimer's
Is there anyone here who doesn't even care their mother has dementia?
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nicenewone1 · 21/02/2017 19:49
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