I don't really know why I'm writing this or what I want to hear but just need to unload somewhere before I breakdown in tears.
So, my father, who I live with all my heart has Alzeimers and vascular dementia. Fairy early stages, diagnosed 1.5 years ago. He is a great dad and we get in really well, I see him daily. Anyway, today I went to take him out for an ice cream and was helping him put on his shoes when I commented that the chiropodist hadn't done a great job on his feet, well you would of thought I'd committed the greatest sin of all time! Dad got really defensive and argument ice and told me not to come again. In anger and feeling hurt I snapped back "it's a good job I do as nobody else does." Now I feel guilty. Really guilty. I've come home and don't know what to do bar cry. I have two, useless brothers who do nothing whatsoever with dad and I know u shouldn't have said that. I'm just tired and hurt. Thanks for reading😞
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Dementia and Alzheimer's
Just need to unload
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Stargazer100 · 22/07/2016 14:24
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