So, just want to get this off my chest. Other than meeting and marrying DH the past 5 years have been rubbish. My DF died of aplastic anaemia 5 years ago and then my mum had to have an ear removed due to cancer. While I was going through this DMIL was diagnosed with breast cancer. So we'd both been through loads before we met. Since then DMIL's cancer has come back and she's now terminal. That's the background! Over this year DFIL has been getting more and more confused this resulted in him going missing. The police were called he was found and then admitted to a mental health unit. Since then he's been sectioned due to threatening staff. It's just too much.