My OH works away in the week. It was my DD's 3rd birthday today, baring in mind he is in germany. He didnt phone until I text him about an hour ago and asked him to ring me. So on the phone he crapped on about himself as always then asked what I had been up to today, I then explained how busy I had been thinking he would remember but he didnt. I then told him it was his DD's birthday today. He said 'oh shit, I am so busy I forgot!' and then just said 'so what', and 'you phoned just to have a go at me?'
I am so upset that he didnt remember, I am so upset for my kids too.