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Man question to men, from a woman, but ultimately just a question

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IDidntRaiseAThief · 12/06/2009 11:00

hi men

I am a woman.

On Facebook there is a bit where you can click that you are interested in men, or women, then you can (if you want to) click you are on there for networking, socialising bla bla.
Your don't have to click anything of course.

Men,

If you were married and clicked the interested in women button, then to my mind thats ok.

If your reason for clicking it was, you wanted to let people from years back know you weren't gay.

Well what's that all about??

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IDidntRaiseAThief · 12/06/2009 11:05

BigCockDad,
any ideas?

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IDidntRaiseAThief · 12/06/2009 11:20

?

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DaveTheBloke · 12/06/2009 11:22

perhaps he was known as Gay Dave when he was at school?

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DaveTheBloke · 12/06/2009 11:23

Maybe he wanted to let people know from years back that he wasn't gay?

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Hassled · 12/06/2009 11:23

Not a man - but I would think it was about being homophobic. Or from having had "gay" used as a taunt against the man back in the playground days, and wanting to tell the taunting lads they were wrong.

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IDidntRaiseAThief · 12/06/2009 11:24

hmm, yes maybe.

he was quite effeminate ish. maybe was teased alot?

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IDidntRaiseAThief · 12/06/2009 11:27

makes me bit as this is someone i thought i knew well. Might have had taunts but never disclosed.

flip side could be, closet gay, slightly gay still?

People aren't always one or t'other, are they. bi ?

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