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zippitippitoes Mon 25-Aug-08 22:58:39 a couple of months ago i said to bf

i love you bf

and he said what did you say

well itt was kind of muffled into his neck

so i said it again well he didnt run away

but i told myself i was not allowed to say it again unless he said it to me

but tonight I did say it

well it did delay his departure and he was very kissy and cuddly after

but then i felt a bit oh no he is just being very kissy and cuddly because he is giving me something to remember him by..and when he gets home he is going to dump me

have i messed things up

ps i lent him my helmet as insurance

scanner Mon 25-Aug-08 23:02:19

Am not a Dad Zippi, but I feel for you. How did you say it? in a deep and meaningful staring into his eyes kind of way? or in the snuggling into his neck off the cuff way?

zippitippitoes Mon 25-Aug-08 23:04:53

oh horribly deep and significant wityh added undertones of i know this is a bad thing to say

troubledfriend Mon 25-Aug-08 23:07:35

If you love him it's a GOOD thing to say!
Well done

scanner Mon 25-Aug-08 23:10:44

I feel your pain.

I did this once, Oh God it was hell.... until he sent me an email the next day saying 'I love you' - married the silly sod too.

zippitippitoes Mon 25-Aug-08 23:12:10

oh that was nice then

i will settle for not running a mile i think

zippitippitoes Mon 25-Aug-08 23:12:58

but if he said it to me i would be very happy

but also i know it aint gona happen

scanner Mon 25-Aug-08 23:13:43

why won't it happen?

ShinyPinkEELSwithShoesOn Mon 25-Aug-08 23:15:26

You lent him your helmet ???

zippitippitoes Mon 25-Aug-08 23:15:34

well i just cant see it

i think he is too pragmatic

or he would think it was making a commitment that he couldnt fulfil

zippitippitoes Mon 25-Aug-08 23:16:06

yes he hasnt got one and i bought one recently

scanner Mon 25-Aug-08 23:16:41

but in your heart of hearts do you think he feels the same way about you as you do about him? does it feel equal?

zippitippitoes Mon 25-Aug-08 23:17:14

he is going to probably go on via ferrata in a weeks and so instead of buying a helmet he is borrowing mine

zippitippitoes Mon 25-Aug-08 23:18:47

i think he does have feelings

scanner Mon 25-Aug-08 23:20:09

Ah ha, so there you go then - all is fine, you can sleep tonight.

zippitippitoes Mon 25-Aug-08 23:20:26

he sometimes squeezes my hand a few times when we are holding hands

or cuddlesme hard

(pathetic school girl emoticon)

i feel like i should be in grease

zippitippitoes Mon 25-Aug-08 23:49:03

panic over for now i think

he just sent me a very short email he has just got home

but it was funny/sexy/sweet and had 4 kisses

which is 4 times as many as usual

bloody hell what it is like being 14 eh

lou33 Mon 25-Aug-08 23:57:08

i do love hearing you speak about your bf zippi, always makes me smile

zippitippitoes Tue 26-Aug-08 00:00:19

oh thats nice lou

did yiou see my name check to you on what mners changed your life

lou33 Tue 26-Aug-08 01:47:10


what thread?

S1ur Tue 26-Aug-08 01:53:17

zippi I think it sounds good. good but tentative. which is okay, because it is gradual which might not be a bad thing anyway.

And four kisses is Good smile

SuperBunny Tue 26-Aug-08 03:57:10

Aww, zippi.

Am glad he responded appropriately.

zippitippitoes Tue 26-Aug-08 11:52:08

well i am feeling happier..

he knows how i feel anyway

lou33 Tue 26-Aug-08 14:01:26

this is so sweet zippi

i found the thread, thank you grin

nailpolish Tue 26-Aug-08 14:04:19

tell him WHY you love him

men dig that

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