I’ll keep this short as I can. OH likes rumba dancing. No problem with that. Not my thing. So I don’t go. Then. Radar started pinging. And I found out that she has had a bit of a crush on some guy. He likes her too apparently. Common interests and all that. But she swears that’s all it is. Nothing has happened. They know the situation and the rules. So it’s a No go. They’ve had a couple of dances, as you do there. And she’s now trying to avoid him. Still goes, mind.
I’m getting myself in a mess over nothing apparently, she says. But I know she has been thinking about him a lot. We’ve reconciled (sort of) but I’m uneasy about the whole thing and it has made me question everything.
I don’t want to say don’t go anymore and be a controlling partner but if the situation was reversed I wouldn’t see that as unreasonable if it saved our marriage. Am I being overly dramatic? We all fancy people from time to time, right? We’re only human. But it’s acting upon it that counts. What to do?
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Grigio3000 · 27/02/2020 10:06
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