Hi Guys
Advice please.
I'm 32 weeks pregnant with our first baby.
My husband is excited about the baby but has decided he doesn't know if he wants to be with me anymore, despite the fact that he still loves me and fancies me.
We've been together 5.5 years and married for 1.5 years and he keeps saying that it all just happened - moving in, buying a house, getting married, getting pregnant - and that we didn't discuss everything.
Is he just having pre-baby nerves and being scared that he has no control over things?
Last week, I found out he had become rather too close to a female friend, though nothing has happened physically (don't ask how, but I know this to be true). He swears this is a symptom of how he is feeling about us, and not the cause. I believe him as he's been down for ages, but refused to talk about it, and this thing with the other girl is very recent.
He wants to wait until the baby is born before we make any decisions.
I feel so alone and wretched. Do all About-to-be-Dads go through a period of sheer terror and questioning, or am I about to become a single mum?
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WheresMyWaistGone · 01/09/2007 12:09
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