My wife & I are on weekly arguments. Can last about a day or 2. I have tried to listen to the issues she has with me but the problem is I don’t know how to solve them. I wish it was things like leaving the toilet seat up. I can easily get that fixed.
Are there couples out there who don’t argue and things run smoothly and effortlessly. Or if you do argue you don’t think it’s such a big deal.
The main arguments we have is about money and her having to work. She totally resents me for it in that it’s all my fault that she has to work and can’t do more stuff with kids.
I’m sorry but not everyone is designed to be on 100k salaries. I’m not accusing her of being materialistic or anything but Surely there has got to be more unfortunate circumstances life can throw at you than that.
She’s really got it in for me because she has to work (part time I might add). If anything goes wrong she always relates to it to the working mum issue so it always becomes my fault.
I try to solve problems but some things are difficult or long term.
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