was going to nc for this but really can't be bothered!
so anyway here goes ....
i have a new bloke and it is really getting down about not being able to make me ahem well you know cos of him coming too soon.
i have told him that a few men haven't been able to make me through penetration and it is me not him but then he says yes but i bet they gave it a much better go than me and lasted longer. and yes i admitted they did but still it wasn't his fault.
how can i make him feel better over this. it doesn't bother me. imo its not all about the big O, i just enjoy the act itself but he doesn't see it like that. thinks if i'm not going to get anything from it it's a big waste of time. he doesn't seem to get that i do get a lot from it anyway.
i have tried taking control to show him what i like but then when i just get into it he goes and ruins it all by doing his own thing.
sorry this is so long!
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nappyaddict · 05/06/2007 13:17
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