After 25 years of so-so faithful marriage, the last 15 with minimal intimacy ( her choice) our youngest son turned 18 and I asked for a divorce. I knew that if we didn’t split I would cheat and then she would dump me. ( I don’t like lying). She asked me to stay, not wanting to destroy the family and said I could have an affair or visit escorts. She didn’t care cause she’s doesn’t want sex. “Just don’t cause embarrassment”. This is not “ every mans dream “. Should I go? I tried counselling 12 years ago, she didn’t show up after work. A split would hurt family and friends and cost a fortune . Help!
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